Guys help please! I never know what to say!?

I can talk to guys ok but it's always boring so they tend to just give up and go away so I really need some advice on how to talk to or more to the point what to say to guys...and yes I know sex is a big thing they talk about but I mean something other than that

Guys help please! I never know what to say!?dream theater

The thing is, conversation is an art. You learn by doing. Which means you have to try even if you suck at it. So keep trying. If the guy also sucks at it, you're really in trouble. 8^) But every time you talk to a guy you get a little better, so don't shy away from it.

Hint: Guys like to talk about -themselves-! Ask them about their job, or about school. Ask them if they have any hobbies, then get interested and ask them to explain. After that you won't even have to talk at all, except to say 'Uh huh. Go on.' Smile a lot. Look in their eyes when you talk to them. When they talk to you, show that you are listening, not just waiting for your turn to speak.

Guys help please! I never know what to say!?performing arts opera theater

Perhaps they are the ones that are boring? Asking questions to the other person about themselves is always a good conversation starter ie. So, what did you get up to today? I would not talk about sex with them, as it will give them the wrong impression, and only talk about sport with them if you are really interested - otherwise you may find you are the one that walks away.
We love to talk about ourselves. It's true.

Get him talking about what interests him, smile and be attentive, offer interesting responses. But keep him talking.

That'll require reading the newspaper a little to stay up on current affairs; maybe the sports page.

Sex is actually a pretty dicey conversation topic. Get him talking about that and he'll get all turned on and then won't be interested in *just talking* anymore.
sports that always catches a guys attention Even more if you can talk back to them about it and know what there talking about
Have you tried NOT TALKING?

After reading your question, I think he's probably not listening anyway.
if you have to find things to talk to guys, it usually means, the guys arent that hot for you. otherwise the guys will always take the initiative and work hard to keep the conversation going.
If you want a guy to be agressive, just act unsure or act like you have a boyfriend.
it.s rare that guys talk about sex ;in front of women .i kinda need too know your age .then i could tell you more .
rehearse. that's right rehearse an opening statement if u will, the rest will follow. when i was young and handsome, i was totally shy. fem, fr, told me this trick.must still work 'cuz i'm old scarred up, and still have lot's of gals to talk to. think of something generic, gender neutral, then practice how to say it. once done during a lull in conversation w/a group of people do your thing.
offer them a good time... I'm a guy, if a sweet girl came up to me and asked, "Want to come over to my place"? My pant's would be jumping :P
you can talk about cars, movies, video games, music, sports, camping, and so many things.. Just pay attention and figure out what the guy is into.. If you don't know anything about it ask him questions.. get him talking.. the more he talks the easier it will be for you to talk to him..
Games! and/or their interests! Usually you'll connect with someone if you have the same interests, if you don't, then you won't. Dont try too hard, just be interested in what they have to say too!
well learned alot about sports and try asking what are some of there interest
Ask him what his interests are and sound interested even if you aren't interested in the subject. A big turnoff for me is when I'm talking about something I like and she's not even listening.
Learn everything you can about cars, football and video games.
Do people actually 'talk' about sex? Well, just talk about your interests, that's a good start
guys don't normally talk about sex with girls. I think you should just ask more questions about the things they are talking about, ask them about the different types, styles, colours etc etc of the stuff they are into. Being enthusiastic in your responses is good too, say " hey that's cool" my friend/brother/dad etc is into that too!"
i think the answer to that is be yourself.

Guys dont like girls who are fake and play pretend games.

You should find something you two have in common and start from that.