Thursday, December 10, 2009

I want 2 tell this really shy guy that i like him...what the heck do i say???

please hurry...it's friday and i'm gonna' tell him i like him on saturday!!! i want 2 b like "hey...i like you...i need 2 no if u like me back, 'cause if u don't then i want 2 just move on" .... but i'm not sure!!! what do i say and how do i respond if he says "yes" or "no" .... either way i need 2 no what 2 say back!!!



I want 2 tell this really shy guy that i like him...what the heck do i say???performing show



Okay, okay, okay...



Here's the thing. You said that he is shy. Why does that matter? If you get that feeling that he kind of likes you already then you just need to take the bull by the horns. Take him to a quiet place if you can and come out with it. Just tell him that you really like him. End with a kiss... and that's that. If he's really shy then he'll appreciate your being forward all the more.



Take it from one who was once 'this really shy guy': he will be thankful for your honesty. Actually, when I was like that I had this girl stride up to me and start eating my face off. We were 'really good pals' after that, know what I mean?



I want 2 tell this really shy guy that i like him...what the heck do i say???opera score opera theater



really shy guy...i like you



say it just like that
Your own idea there sounds good.



I'd bet $50 he says he likes you too.
I like stephasadie's advice.
you r attracted to this guy. you will not know if you really like each..other until you get to know each other. so instead of saying do you like me.. which he may not know yet.. ask if he will like to have lunch., dinner ..coffee. something like that.
say hi my name is....... and i was thinking about hanging out sometime how bout 7ish (or watever time you like) heres my address and # call me when your ready and then name the place you wanna go go0d luck :)
Just say to him, 'do you wanna (activity) sometime?'. He'll get the message. Even shy guys are still guys.
You might try



"You know I sort of like (GO) for you"



"I have the feeling you might like me too"



How come you have never asked for my phone number or anything?



If yes, you are on your way



if no, then you know



you can start off by saying"I hope you don't think me forward, but I would like to ask you a question?"



If you hear no like



say well I just wanted to know



or if something like a put down



you can always say"That's what I thought, but since a girlfriend bet me $19 ; I had to do it



You understand don't you?



Thanks for being a good sport!"



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humm, you want to tell a guy that you like him........i would go with "i like you"
if he that shy .well just step up and start talking to him.
"hey..how are ya?" (he answers) "i just wanted to tell ya something but i thought i'd give ya this note instead...please get back to me" (you hand the note to him, then walk away after a cute wave and smile)...there you go. you did a good thing in a good way...and he wasnt' embarrassed at maybe saying no...and you get to wait for HIM to make the next move. :) isn't life grand? hehe.
I am pretty shy myself. If you start talk to the guy, he will probably talk back because that's respectful. When you start talk to him more, he will probably start to like you because shy guys don't talk to a lot of people, and if you are the only person who talks him a lot, he will start to like you. Don't rush it, because if you do what you said in your question, he probably will say no because he doesn't even know who you are.
Be straight forward
I think that you should just go up to him and say that you like him darnet.
Just say: 'shall we go to the movies on friday'. You've already started him thinking in terms of we- any answer her gives talks of you-both as a singularity.
I would just get right to it and say hey you know I have known you for ______ amount of time and I really do like you when you do ________ or that_______. See how he replies if it is positive just say it would be awesome if we could just hang out or just go to the movies together...talk about movies you like and see if he agrees that will be a lead into asking to go to the movies and just say hey how about this day or that day we can go and see which theater is playing it... go from there
start with Hello... thats usually a good icebreaker.. ;)



Dont just wham him with i like you do you like me out of the blue... you'll scare him.. lol but let him know that you are interested in him... what he says back, and his body language will let you know if he is interested too...
Actions speak louder then words.



1) Get him on own away from anyone.



2) Don't appear threatening.



3) Engineer an means of touching... you first. Ie cinema and your arm around him or against him, If he is cool and relaxes whisper he can put his arm around you if he likes....



4) If he does wait a little bit them pull his arm onto you breast and move nose in to kiss him...



5) if he is not so good help him out. If he likes you and realises you like him and cool getting kissy touchy and he can mess up a little he can relax. then call him next day to meet up again as he may be nervous about picking a perfect date or when to call you etc... Again no other mates.



If he is not interested ask 'still mates?'



Or engineer a game where if he wins he can kiss you if he likes, if he does kiss him back.;
say hello...just ask how hes doing...sometimes honestly it just takes one word to start the conversation and then something happens. otherwise you will never know.
Shy people are generally very grateful if someone takes the time and trouble to engage with them. My advice is to be straight and tell him you like him a lot. Then say something like: "Hey, no problem if you don't feel the same way, but I just thought I'd let you know". My bet is that he'll love your attitude and want to hang out with you.
Hey. i would go up to him and say hey whatsup.. ya know.. make small talk. then say like wanna do something on saturday? if he likes u, its pretty sure fool proof and u got urself a man ;)
well i think u should just start out by talking to him- dont rush it on him all at once!!!

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