Thursday, December 10, 2009

I'm breaking up with my boyfriend and i'm confused on what to say?

My boyfriend and I have been dating only a few days and i've found out he likes to get to close for comfort. I've told him he's my first boyfriend, he's moving way to fast and I don't like him getting so close but he won't stop. I still want to be friends but i'm not sure what to say to him. This is what I have so far:



You know how when you were a kid, you wanted something so badly and then you got it and it wasn鈥檛 what you expected? Well that鈥檚 how I feel about us. I guess I wanted to go out so badly that I didn鈥檛 think things through. I went against all that I was for and about to go out with you. I willingly disobeyed my parents and my morals just by saying yes. And the truth is I don鈥檛 like you the way I wanted to. So I鈥檓 breaking up with you. Please don鈥檛 take this the wrong way. I鈥檓 not breaking up with you because what happened on Friday or because I like someone else. I鈥檓 sorry. Just know that I鈥檒l always remember you as my first real boyfriend.



I'm breaking up with my boyfriend and i'm confused on what to say?home theater system



Well you have tried talking to him and that didn't work. So just break it to him lightly, but not over the phone or online. That's just too harsh.



Simply say that you think things aren't working out and that you need some space. Don't go into too much detail or anything. Breaking up with someone is a hard time for both people in the relationship. Keep that in mind. If he refuses to leave you, then ask him if he would be your best friend. But don't just walk away after you say that its over. Give him a quick hug.



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Good Luck!



I'm breaking up with my boyfriend and i'm confused on what to say?the grand theater opera theater



it sounds nice.. but if its about what happend on friday.. let him know...
Sounds great. Not confusing. Not lies. Just plain straight-forward truth gets the job done. Remember this for all subsequent break-ups.
What you say isn't nearly as important as how you say it. The best thing you can do is say it yourself. Use your mouth and his ear. No phone, no letter, no having your friend do it. Go to him, face him, and say what you have to say. There's no other way here. I know that shoots your letter all to HeIl, and it is very nicely written, but letters are not good for breaking up. If you have something to say, you should say it yourself. Anything else makes you weak.
tell it to him through SEX
also say,



to me you have been coming on really strong and it doesn't feel right to me. I feel that being friends was way easier then the pressure of this relationship and i want to go back to being friends if thats ok with you. i really care about you, but only as a friend. I'm sorry.
I think what you've got there is great, that's all you really need to say. None of that crap about remaining friends seeing as he's moving away anyway... good luck =]
Well first of all if he doesn't stop when u ask him 2 and ur breaking up with him 4 it then u r completely right. But just say to him i thin k we are not good as bf and gf b/c u want to be in a level of our relationship that i am not ready for. I just want to be friends. If he says he won't be pushy any more don't believe him. Some not all but some guys only want one thing from there realtionships. Just break it off now b4 u do something u r going to regret. Go out with some 1 who respects u.And since he is moving away u don't have to talk to him in person. If he decides to still be friends.
just tell him the truth, and if you don't want to hurt him then tell him anything you want...



but don't be with him if you don't feel comfortable, relationships are about the two of you feeling comfortable with each other... not only one. What you feel counts too!
say there is this other guy

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