My so called best mate keep cancelling on me,if I'm going out at the weekend I'll always invite her %26amp; her b/friend.She always says yes then does'nt show or texts me at the last minute with some poor excuse.I'm seeing less %26amp; less of her since she started going out with this guy,they've been together a year %26amp; a half now so surely the honeymoon period is going on a bit longer than usual.I have a b/friend myself so it's not as if I'm feeling left out.We never talk on the phone anymore %26amp; it's really starting to get me down.Do I say something to her or just leave it to see if she realises %26amp; does something about it.
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talk to her. I had the exact same problem. I told her what was wrong. She said she never realised and promised to make things better. She didn't and that was the end of that friendship. But who knows, things could go better for you.
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definately say something. Next time you ask her to go out and she refuses, simply say "im seeing a pattern developing here. Have i done something to upset you?"
Yeah i think you should tell her that you're feeling a bit hurt and left out by the way she's been treating you. Maybe she just doesn't realise?
This has happened to me before. Sometimes people just grow apart. I have lost contact with many old friends. It does suck when they do those kinda things. It feels like they don't care really. You could call her and tell her you really need to talk to her in person, then tell her all this, about how your feeling, that it is really getting you down and ask her if everything is ok, why she has been doing this, that you miss hanging out with her.
This happens to most frendships. I do think you should have a polite word, try to come to an arrangement for a `girls time out` only. Do your best, she is obviously devoting all her time to her boyfriend, but as a best mate you are best to not get between them, she will come to need a shoulder and who better than you? will be there. I hope all works well!
YOU SHOULD SAY SOMETHING. BUT IN A CALM WAY. JUST LET HER KNOW THAT YOU MISS UR FRIENDSHIP
I would talk to her.....you deserve to know what s going on it s not fair if you keep contacting her if she doesnt want to know anymore....I had a friend like that to be honest im glad we've fallen out as she was so selfish and only wanted to know when she didnt have anyone else.
STOP INVITING HER. SHE WILL GET THE PICTURE. SHE WILL EVEN COME UP TO U OFFENDED BECAUSE U DIDN'T CALL HER EITHER. THEN U CAN TELL HER ALL U WANT HER TO HEAR. GOOD LUCK.
Tricky. I wonder if her boyfriend has a problem with you? Perhaps he isn't that keen on you and she feels uncomfortable to tell? Its a bit upsetting but I would approach her and say something when you get a chance. If it clears the air then you can ask her to see you without the boyfriend on days she isn't seeing him. It will save a lot of grief.
She is either enjoying setlled life or her boyfriend doesnt really like her going out anymore or worse - doesnt like her having friends. Go and see her at home without her bloke being there and have a chat about this.
well she is newly wed right? So that proly means she is so much in love now........well you can wait a bit.......then say something
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